Relationship: A Necessity or A Desire
For me this question can never be answered as having a relationship can be a necessity for one person and the same time it can be a desire for the other person.
Being in a relationship is like living in a heaven ,if it is a success…and if not then it can even ruin your life like hell. Sometimes it is a desire, for those who are single and see other couples, at least for once; a thought strikes their mind that it is good to be in a relationship.
This thinking develops because of the inferiority complex among those who are not engaged in such sort of things. Teenagers feel inferior in their peer group for not having any relationship. This provokes them and also creates a desire among them for having relationships. Sometimes “a need of physical gratification” also develops a desire among teenagers and youths to make relationship. For some, it’s just a means to the gratification of their physical urges.
It is the result of the thinking of people which sometimes leads to the wrong deeds. Having a relationship is a sign of being on a higher level or having respect of friends and mates in their peer groups. It can also be a way of passing time and having fun.
Relationship isn’t a game of a play station where a player only with powers will win the game or the player having Remote-1 will dominate; rather it’s a game in which there are two players with the trust, love, care, possessiveness, understanding, emotional intimacy, and commitments use them all as their powers for proving themselves or for winning the game of relationship.
It’s not about passionate loving i.e. only physical intimacy. It’s not about saying only “I LOVE YOU”; it’s about understanding the feeling that how much the other person loves you. It is not about kissing, exchanging gifts, and giving hugs to each other.
It is about understanding the feelings whether your partner is sad or not, the reason behind their sadness, the reason of the tears, the source of that smile, the reason of their happiness, converting their weaknesses into strengths, converting negativity into positivity, making them believe in themselves, telling them about all the rights and the wrongs and to withstand in their support. It is actually about trust, care and understanding.
Sometimes, it becomes a necessity for an individual. As a result of being rejected by their family, their friend circle and others, they feel that they need someone to share their pain with, their happiness, there has to be someone who could understand what he/she feels like (the feelings), and can find a solution of their problems.
As a result of not being loved, they try to be in a relationship so that they can also get the deserving love, care, and respect from which they have been deprived of. All this provokes them to be in a relationship. Sometimes they feel that except the love and care of the family and friends, there should be some special love, and care to make them feel special for living a life (the way they want it to be).
RELATIONSHIP is neither good nor bad. It just depends on the way you want it and the reason why you want it. Some wants it because of the gratification of their physical needs and some wants it because of the need of the true love and care.
Indeed, we can’t say that being in a relationship is a necessity or a desire and i.e. why the question will remain the same and unanswered that whether “RELATIONSHIP IS A NECESSITY OR JUST A DESIRE???”…
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